Guidelines in Naming a New Baby

The name of a person is analogous to a brand for a product. It is something that will be forever part of who that person is. To would be parents, naming their new baby is perhaps one of the things that eat up time and yes, even their thinking. Different folks have different ways of naming a baby. There is a ethnic group here in the Philippines that names their newborns with the first sound that the mother hears right after giving birth. Hence, the names Aw-Aw (a dog's bark) or Tilaok (a rooster crowing). Then there are also families who have their own naming traditions. I know one family that honors the patriarch by naming all firstborn sons with his name. Can you imagine attending your family reunion and hearing your name being called only to realize it's not only you answering the call.

We are now on the process of naming our little princess as we only have roughly three more months before we get to see her. We have trimmed down our choices to three names. Well even before we got pregnant, we I already have a few names chosen if we will have a baby girl in the family. For me, how to name a new baby should be the couple's decision, not just the Mom or the Dad. But yes, there should be guidelines, at least, on how to choose a baby's name. Here are what we follow when we name our firstborn, the same guides we are using to choose a name for our little princess.

• Uniqueness.  I was actually the one who wants to give my babies unique names.  Unique, in the sense that I do not want them to turn their heads whenever their name is being called only to find out that it's not really them being called.  My name is a very common one and I do not want my children to suffer the same fate.  An unfamiliar name will definitely make your child stand out from the crowd.  But just a warning though, you may wanna balance uniqueness with melodious sound and not too hard to spell out names.
• A name should have a meaning.  This is the part that Hubby is very picky about.  He wants a name that has nice meanings.  He said that a child lives up to his name.  The reason why our firstborn was named "Jian Cyrus" was because Hubby read in a baby name book that Jian is a variation of the name Jiang which means throne.  And Cyrus is from the famous Persian king. You see, even names had evolved, hence you may also want to look at how your choice of name has been derived on other languages.
• Give a twist to old names or perhaps a name from your family tree.  I have always adored my Mom and my grandmother.  I remember a conversation with my Mom where I told her if I will have a daughter, I will name her with my grandmothers' name or a variation of it.  But Hubby does not favor the name of my grandmother because he said it sounds too sad (blame it on Adele and her songs).  So we're looking into giving it a twist.  Hubby agreed adding another letter before it and playing with the spelling a  bit.  

At the end of the day, the most important thing is that you and your partner will agree on the name of the baby.